Take it easy on people - Not everyone is meant to stay.

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If your heart hurts a little after letting go
of someone or something, that's okay. 
                      
It just means that your feelings were genuine.

No one likes endings.
But sometimes we have to put things
that were once good, to an end
after they turn toxic to our well being.
Not every new beginning is meant to last forever.

And not every person who walks
into your life is meant to stay.




Lol One day you can be someone's best friend and next thing you know you are stranger. And sometimes we receive love from the most unexpected and unlikely places. 
With that being said... nurture the people who are truly down for you throughout life. Appreciate moments. You don't get them back. Everyone can't go with you to the top of your mountain. Be smart! Don't drag people with you. 
God connects us with people for a Reason, Season or Lifetime. So just think about it like that. Take it easy on people you have met. They come for some reason. 
You may have heard this Quote before-

                                 
                     "People come in your life for a reason, season or lifetime."

 But when we understand which one it is we're able to reciprocate accordingly. 

 Some people are come to our life for a SEASON. It's exciting, it's enthralling, it's incredible.They may teach you something you have never done. They give you an unbelievable amount of joy but that season has a next phase. That season has an end point. 

"Some people don't care for you when you're alone, they just care when they're alone."


Some people come to your life for REASON. They come to help you learn, to help you grow and support you through your most difficult times. Never forget the person who was there for you when no one else was. When they has every reason to not be there. When they could have used any excuse to not be in your life, they chose to be right there next to you. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. But then they walk away when their work is done.   

                                    
Its like a prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

 And then you have a friends that are there for a LIFETIME. They were sometimes hidden in the cracks. They were sometimes not even recognized but they stood there by your side. These were the people you often forgot or do not expect from. These were the people who were busy loving you even when you were giving nothing to them.
Ask yourself, who in your life has played this role? Who in your life has been there for a lifetime?
How can you show them that they matter for you? Ask yourself, who has been there in your worst times? Who has been there for you when no one else has?
Reach out to them. Make sure that they know you care.
Often we give love to certain people and that love comes back to us but sometimes not through the same people. 

Often we feel we care more about people than they care for us. We're just looking at the wrong people. 

Find your People.

Stay happy. Stay blessed.
💞💞💞



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