Self Love: Let your soul glow

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Let your soul glow even at its dark. Many times I heard that we need someone by our side always then and now. A friend, relatives, companions, there should be someone in our life to complete us.

Are we incomplete or not self-contained? Or are we so dependent on others for our happiness, decisions? Or are we so much afraid of loneliness that we desire to have someone who sticks by our side?
Finding self
In search of self

No, we are a unique and complete being as self but most of us are unaware of this fact, believes that someone's care, love and attention is all that what makes us happy and wanted.
Our happiness is within us.Everything we need, our courage, strength, compassion and love, everything we need is already within us.

Having true relationships, friendships are very precious. We need loved ones around us to share our joy and sorrow, to celebrate the joyful moments together. But entirely depending your emotions, feelings,mood on them is something foolish i lately experienced. Your smile, strength, motivation  vanishes with the non-existence of you in that person's life.
The first and most important relationship we should made in our life is with yourself. The relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationships you have.

love yourself, do what makes you happy

"Love your self, do what makes you happy, grow it"


We all have somewhere deep in our heart has this one fear called loneliness. Lonely is not being alone, it's the feeling that no one cares. But what if you care yourself the most that you don't give a fuck.

"Being alone is scary until you start loving your own company."


Everything changes when you start loving yourself. The more you love who you are, the less you seek validation & approval. I am on my way to being in love with me. And I know, I am too close to be there. What about you?
Spend some quality time with you

" Be alone sometime.Eat alone, take yourself on dates.Spend some quality time with you.Take time to understand and love who you are."


Adore yourself.... You worth it. 😍😍


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